Esther's dating secrets

     Every lady wants a man that possess good qualities,there are lot of things a man should have, that's why you hear ladies saying he is not my type, he does he the few things I want in a man.     When a lady use such words, she is not been pride for setting standard on who she wants to date, rather is dating who suits a lifestyle and who is good enough for her.    As a lady who sets standards,you have to ensure you are up to your standards,like you can't be wanting a hard work man when you are lazy, it does work that way.  As a man who can't figure out if he possess what a lady wants in a man   I was discussing with some ladies to share their view on what they wants in a man, I observed that they were all describing almost the same thing. Here are some things a lady wants in a man 1.A dapper man. 2.The understanding man.  3.The social man.  4.The romantic man.  5.The faithful man.  6.The Godfearing man.  7.The caring man.  8.The smart man.  9.The straight forward and ope

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    They are something you need to know about dating a guy.     Remember the really cute guy who said he would call but didn't? Maybe he is not that into you.  When a guy isn't calling you, you should move on, take ownership of your relationship and stop waiting for a guy that won't call.      Things you need to know about dating and relationships  1. Dont throw yourself at every person   who shows interest.   Not everyone who shows interest has your interest at hand or the best interest for you. Yes , you can be trying to date any guy that comes to ask you out just because you are looking for Mr Right. you are not been good to yourself, love yourself, stop worrying about anything,just be happy,because in the process of being happy something good might just come.  2. Dont force yourself into a relationship.  When you are into someone and he doesn't want to court you,you shouldn't force a relationship between you and him,just because you feel you need him. You are no

Words on marble  It feels great to be desired especially from someone you so much love and care about. It's such a blessing and a beautiful thing.So therefore never stay where you are not wanted because they are some things that can never be.  Don't fight for what you can't change 

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      Who is a side lady? A side lady means the "other lady"i.e the number two lady. Some get to be the other lady unknownly,while others deliberately go into it for material things.     In this our modern world today, it can be difficult to tell if you are a side lady,because some men has mastered the skills of deciet.        A lady can be dating a guy for a long time only to discover that she has been the side lady.         Here are signs that shows you are a side lady(side chick)  1.He restricts you from touching his phone.  2.The way he handles his phone.  3.He will not want to be seen with you in public.  4.You guys only hangs out in hotels, your place or his friend's place.  5.He only communicate well with you when you are together in bed.  6.He will never get personal with you.  7.He won't save your contact in his phone.  8.He only calls when he needs you.  9.He could stay for days without calling you.   By Esther alex    Follow on facebook page @ Esther alex p

How to deal with a cheating partner           Cheating is a Common problem in many relationships. When one partner discovers that the other is cheating, they feel deceived and heart broken.           The partner finds it difficult to deal with the situation,you might want to leave but you are afraid of the hurt because you love that person. By let me tell you something because something hurts you doesn't mean you ain't going to do it. Sometimes you need to go through the hate, pain,to get away from someone that is not treating you well.   Get sometimes for yourself and get away from the situation,think about it.Some leave too quick just because someone cheat on them, am not saying you should stay with someone that cheated but sometimes people leave too early, take your time to pray, figure out what is going on.     I know you will ask " what if they cheat again? You can just sit fold your hands and let it happen over and over again .Make them respect you, if you want to be

Things you need to know before dating         Dating can also be known as courting. Dating is a stage of romantic relationship in human whereby two people meet socially with the aim of each assessing  the others suitability as a prospective partner in a initimate relationship.    Most people don't understand the dating ways, that's why they leave the relationship at any slight problem. Some date just because they are lonely, or maybe because others are dating and they don't way to be left out why some date for fun.     Here are things you need to know before dating  1.Be honest about why you want to date them.  2.Put all in if you are going to do it.  3.Accept that your relationship will get more complicated  4.Know that relationship is all about patience and been yourself. 5.Dont rehearse what to say.  Most importantly  6.Date who is good enough for you.     By Esther alex Follow on facebook page@Esther alex personal page Follow on facebook @Eneada Esther Ogaba