Esther's dating secrets

Words on marble  Most times I couldn't help but wonder why the human heart always want what they couldn't get, until I finally realized that who your heart truly wants might not want you also simply because you may not be the type of person they want, or they are not in love with you or want you back.  Also have you ever wonder why those you don't want, but their heart will want you,  let me tell you, because that's not the type of person you want, and also your heart don't want them.  So my dear when ever your heart wander to a place that it's not needed or couldn't get, don't think to much, just think of the time someone really wants you but couldn't get you simply because your heart don't need them. Console yourself because that is the circle of life.  You can't always get whatever you want.       By Esther alex  Follow me on Esthersecretng.blogspot.com Also on Facebook page @ Esther alex personal blog page and facebook @Eneada Esther Ogab

The Affair  Last Episode  Where you don't belong, no matter how hard you try, you can never fit in. Don't force yourself into anyone's life if you are not wanted, never be too desperate to get someone to love you. If only Stacy had known that are past was about to be caught up with her. Too bad, too bad for Stacy.   Stacy was thinking, Terrence wants to make a proposal with the ring she saw,  Terrence only wanted to give her a hot face slap with the ring. Stacy can you be honest enough to tell me what really happened that night, did I really had an affair with you? Terrence asked, she was shocked baby you slept with me remember, let's not Just remember the past, I have forgiven you she said, Terrence became more furious, Stacy I won't ask again what happened that night then he slammed his hands on the dinning table, when Stacy saw how angry he has become she had no choice but to open up, am sorry Terrence then she burst into tears, that night after I was told by our

The Affair  Episode 4 second to last  Somethings are just meant to happen because that's how fate is. I guess if I was Terrence I would have refused the offer, but it's a good thing he went to Sarah's apartment. When Terrence arrived at Sarah's house, knocked on the door, when Sarah heard the knock, she went to get the door, welcome to my apartment Terrence she said. You have a nice home, and where is Jerry?. Thanks for the compliment, Jerry is inside sleeping, and what can I offer you? Have a sit she said, Nothing, here I got something for you, and Jerry, he handed a white leather bag to her. Thank you but you shouldn't have, and what do you want us to discuss. He smiled, am planning on proposing to Stacy tomorrow been Sunday, and I want it to be a surprise, so, I was thinking if you would give me any idea of how your husband proposed to you then. She smiled, and they talked for a while. And when they were done, and he was about to take his leave, Sarah,  wow Jerry

The Affair  Episode 3 If only Stacy had known, she would have gone to get the groceries herself, but too bad she had no slight idea.    When Terrence came out, he saw the same lady with her little child walking towards the door to the supermarket, he quickly stopped her, "Hello miss he said, she turned, and asked please do I know you, He smiled, and said it's me from the other day the guy that almost knock down your son, sorry for the other day, she quickly remembered, and smiled it's OK, am glad you didn't do it, he smiled please can I take you guys out for a treat, if your husband don't mind, and don't worry am not going to court you just want to treat the little boy, she stared at him for a few minutes, and later reply with OK but not today maybe tomorrow...am OK with it he said, then he turned to the little boy, and asked him "what is your name little one? My name is Jerry the little boy replied, Terrence smiled, what a nice name, and turned to the lad

The Affair Episode 2 Sometimes, things are just bound to happen when we didn't plan for it or want it. Terrence wasn't aware that things was about to change. Terrence wouldn't believe his eyes when he saw Stacy lying nake beside him " oh God this must be a dream, hope I didn't" he muttered to himself, and immediately he woke Stacy up "get up what are doing here in my room, and hope we didn't he was still talking when Stacy began to cry, what did you do to me? She quickly got dress, and ran out of his room. Terrence was just numb, not knowing what to do, and was praying for all of be a dream but too bad because it was just so real. Terrence calmed himself down, and was trying to remember all that happened last night, but he couldn't get the clear picture of it, all he could remember was seeing himself making love with a lady. The Next day, they all left the hotel, boarded a plane and left. Terrence couldn't stop thinking about the whole issue,

The Affair  Episode 1 When someone loves you, and you don't reciprocate that love, just because you don't love that person, try as much as possible to stay away from that person, because anything can happen anytime. Just like it happened in the life of a guy called Terrence.  Terrence is a very hardworking young man, he works in a big firm, and he is from a good background. Terrence is a single guy, he has no intimate relationship with any lady so because of his good character ladies love him, but he never reciprocated their love, and they all give up their hopes on him except for one of his colleague called Stacy, she had tried all tactics to make Terrence fall for her but it was all in vain. Terrence and Stacy are good friends, so he refused developing any feelings for her, not that she isn't beautiful or not fully endowed, but he just refused courting her, and thought they were better as friends. Few weeks later the manager of the company called all the staff for general

   Having a heartbreak is never a good thing it makes you feel like you won't be able to love another or get another. Love takes time to heal but you can't speedup your recovery quickly it all depends on you just you alone.  1.Never fight the pain:Always it is out, let it flow,pour it all out to someone that can help you share the pain that way you don't have to carry the pain alone when you let it all out you will feel a lite burden has been removed never keep all the pain inside you.  2.Always remember Why that person left you for someone,dont just remember the lovely moments alone remember the pain also that way it will help you forget about that person.  3.Work on yourself all over again, that is, try to love yourself more, always remind yourself every morning  how beautiful or handsome you are that person don't worth your tears or time.  4.Spend time with friends,spend Alot of your time with family and friends,always have someone to keep you company and stay alone

Words on marble  💖To my single in the house💖 Been single is never a bad idea, sometimes is better to experience the life of a single so you will get knowledge on things. Most people who were betrothed from birth never experience single life I think that's why it's hard for some of them to understand how to tackle things in their marriage life.  It's never a crime to be single, most people stay in a relationship or marriage where they are not wanted because they are scared of been single, been alone. Some are willing to stay with someone that don't deserve their love rather than to stay single,some people prefer to be with someone that treats them lest than they are rather than been single .....Alot of people stays in bad relationship because they feel being disrespected is better than been single. Most people enter into wrong marriage all because they are tired of being single. It's alright to be tired, but never let it put you in a situation or place you will nev

Words on marble  Some guys are to scared to approach the lady they love and ask her out because they are scared of been rejected. Do you know the thing worst she can say is NO.  When you love someone but you are so scared to make a move to let that person know how you feel, you will end up be lonely.  You will never find love if you keep hiding yourself all because of fear of been rejected. Learn how to deal with your fear,face it. When you meet someone you love  summon courage,walk up to that person and tell him/her how you you feel,the worst they can do you is tell you No. Let me tell u my friend don't give up from finding your love all because you receive a No from some other person,continue cause you will eventually find love someday.  By Esther alex  Follow on facebook page @Esther alex personal blog page  Facebook @ Eneada Esther Ogaba

The power of speech control in a relationship   First of all before I proceed I will have to tell you the meaning of power and speech.  Power means possession of controlling and Speech in the other means exchange of spoken words.      Back to my main gist, when you combine the two words and their meaning together you see you have controlling and spoken words I. e your speech possess controlling words, that is why it is very important for you to always choose the right words before speaking to someone especially in a relationship because a spoken words from you can make or break your relationship with your partner.     Like the saying goes they is power in the tongue, when you say the wrong words to your partner it can breakup your relationship.  Mind you not all breakup is as a result of cheating,most of breakup is as a result of the way people talk with their partners, when you don't choose the right positive words on your partner it always have negative influence on the relations

Words on marble      This is an important reason why most relationships work out well.  In life we are all given chances to do things we want because we all have freedom, chance to go wherever we want, buy whatever we need, court whosoever we want,do whatever we want.  But they are somethings people don't understand,in love, we can love whosoever will want but can't stay or have whoever we desire because some are lessons to us, some teaches us how to manage and handle a relationship and a partner. When you love and court someone,unfortunately things didnt work out as you planned or expected, you don't have to cry your eyes out or get yourself all worked up, but I want you to see it as freedom,chance given to you to give things a try so as to see if you and your partner are suited for each other or not. I know you will be saying it won't be easy but trust me when you put the reason, the freedom in mind you will definitely feel better. Because the best one is yet to come.